304-A West Erie Springfield, MO 65807 (417) 881-7151 ac@attachmentconsultants.com
ACO
Treating attachment disorder & trauma - that's what we do.
Since you've come upon this site, you probably have someone you love, or someone from whom you desperately want to feel love, that has been given a diagnosis of Reactive Attachment Disorder, Oppositional Defiant Disorder, ADHD, Depression and other Mood Disorders, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder(PTSD), or a variety of other co-occurring disorders. Or, maybe you haven't been given an Attachment Disorder diagnosis, but you believe it explains what is going on in your family. You may have adopted children, children that were in out-of-home care, or even biological children that are causing great stress in your family.
We understand what you are going through & can help.
Families want to be happy. Parents, grandparents, and children all desire a happy, reciprocal family where love is felt by all. Sometimes families just don't feel good - things seem to always be going wrong. You feel like your family is falling apart. Happy events are followed by unhappiness, and you wonder why you can't have a good time. There is no peace. And you wonder what is going wrong.
Parents Feel..
alone, hopeless, and often show signs of depression
stressed & anxious
like they are crazy and confused
angry
misunderstood and/or not believed by teachers, grandparents, social workers, and therapists, sometimes even by family & close friends
inadequate as parents, a feeling often reinforced by the professionals they go to for help.
Children Feel...
mad
alone
scared
sad
hurt...
They don't want to let you know they are hurt. They are scared to lose you. They have built up their defense mechanisms and freely demonstrate anger, because in their world no one and nothing is safe. They don't want to be vulnerable to the hurt they believe you could cause them. After all...someone did hurt them, someone broke their heart.
At the root of all the explosive, defiant, destructive, controlling, vengeful, inexplicable... behavior is a hurt child who needs help to heal.
At ACO we believe that healing occurs best in families. We also believe that the mother-child bond is critical in the healing process. And, that the father plays a vital role in supporting the family, both in session and at home.
We offer a variety of services that will help your family heal. Please continue on into our site for more in-depth information. Look on this page to find links to our other pages. Please, feel free to contact us.